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| 3 | 3 | - "She has enough information to decide how she feels. She's putting the onus of her feelings on you" SUPER HELPED. I think I need more grounding phrases like that. |
| 4 | 4 | - Am I allowed to keep my feelings about Erin private? What does that look like |
| 5 | +- Is the conversation about what I like more about Jessica than Erin something that's healthy to engage in? |
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| 5 | 6 | - Struggling with reality and perception being scrambled. Not trying to defend the legitimacy or morality of the relationship, just reality. |
| 6 | 7 | - goaded a few times into talking about what I like about Erin. Is that reasonable? Do I have to? |
| 7 | 8 | - When I do talk about Erin, I get "You're wrong. You aren't seeing her clearly. She's boring and selfish. Everybody can see that except you. You only think she's interesting because she's pretty." |